Fear, much like a circus mirror, distorts our view of reality. We each have fears as we go through the divorce process.  Our fears are often based in the unknown.  Everything is so uncertain, it is impossible to see around the bend to know what your life is going to look like when you emerge [...]

fear |fi(ə)r| noun an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat (fear for) a feeling of anxiety concerning the outcome of something or the safety and well-being of someone the likelihood of something unwelcome happening There are times when fear can be a [...]

Guest Blogger:  Sandra Lee Williams Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back; a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country.   -Anais Nin Obviously the term “leash” here is a metaphor for those things that hold you back.  It could be [...]

By Esther Adler, Guest Blogger Valentine is a funny day. Don’t you think? It produces so many different emotions; ecstasy when you’re in love, anger or relief when you’ve ended a relationship, sadness and depression when you’re recovering from a break up and sometimes peace when you’re alone. The key to these emotions is how [...]

By Guest Blogger:  Jason Deines Divorce, loss and fear can cause a person to fall into a rut and before you know it you have moved in, decorated and given your rut a “Home Sweet Home” sign. Divorce brings so much change that we want to keep everything else in our life the same but [...]

As you go through divorce and feel the ground moving beneath you…so many aspects of your life shifting and changing, it is easy to hold on tight, to stay within your comfort zone.  That feeling of knowing what you have and what to expect SEEMS the best choice compared to venturing beyond the borders of [...]

By Guest Blogger Lee Block, Post Divorce Coach Dating after divorce can seem daunting.  For some it is easy, they just slide back into the social scene without skipping a beat, but for most facing a firing squad may seem more appealing.  The fact is, we are predisposed to be a unit, and that need [...]

Whenever we are in transition there is a sense of unease as if the ground beneath us is shifting.  With the transition of divorce, there are many aspects of our lives changing such as our family structure, financial stability, social circle, housing situation and sometimes even our career. As we begin to grapple with our changing [...]

Cyber Support Group offers a convenient way to connect with others… Going through a divorce can be isolating.  Depending on the problems with your marriage, you may be feeling fear, guilt or shame.  You may have been keeping your marital problems secret for a long time, believing that one does not ‘air their dirty laundry’. [...]

The way we draw what we want to us is by developing clarity around our desires.  When I was going through my divorce, I was worried about where I would live and how I would be able to make a living while caring for my two school age children.  I was encouraged to write down [...]